speechless

never love a love that hurts..

never hurt a love that loves..

I could fill a thousand pages telling you how I felt and still you would not understand. 

So now I leave you without a sound except my heart shattering as it hits the ground

♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

use to tell this to myself 

the msg tone woke me up about 3am, and it was frm him "u there?"

i was wondering y did he msg me so late while replying his msg "hows everything". he gave me a very short n strict answer n he disappeared!! 

i seriously dont knw wht is in his mind!

i prefer being in my own world rather than hoping something from him.. 

oww god pls be with me.. 

lucky date!

nothing can make me happier than this wonderful number!

n wonder y every month i feel happy on this date..

::twenty seven::

miss those days ^^

多痛都可以 不能没有你
明知道我爱你 却不敢靠近你
我假装不在意 反而痛了自己
多痛都可以 不能没有你
只想永远永远爱你
你知不知道我也没关系

70 things to remember

1. To the world you might be one person, but to one person you might be the world.
2. Your presence is a present to the world.
3. You are unique and one of a kind.
4. Your life can be what you want it to be.
5. Take the days just one at a time.
6. Count your blessings, not your troubles.
7. You will make it through whatever comes along.
8. Within you are so many answers.
9. Do not put limits on yourself.
10. Decisions are too important to leave to chance.
11. Reach for your peak, your goal and your prize.
12. Nothing wastes more energy than worrying.
13. The longer one carries a problem the heavier it gets.
14. Do not take things too seriously.
15. Live a life of serenity, not a life of regrets.
16. Remember that a little love goes a long way. Remember that a lot ... goes forever.
17. Remember that friendship is a wise investment.
18. Life's treasure are people together.
19. Realize that it is never too late.
20. Do ordinary things in an extraordinary way.
21. Have hearth and hope and happiness.
22. Life is 10% of what happens to you, and 90% of how you respond to it.
23. Don't be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.
24. Take the time to wish upon a star.
25. Words are windows to the heart.
26. You are richer today if you have laughed, given or forgiven.
27. I don't have to attend every argument I'm invited to.
28. Life is like an onion; you peel off one layer at a time and sometimes you weep.
29. Learn from the mistakes of others. You can't live long enough to make them all yourself.
30. A good example is the best sermon.
31. No one is easier to deceive than oneself.
32. The greatest fault of all is to be conscious of none.
33. Love is understanding, acceptance, and tenderness. If it tries to strangle and possess, it is not love.
34. The journey of a thousand miles starts with a single step.
35. The task ahead of us is never as great as the Power within us.
36. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.
37. When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us.
38. The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.
39. It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.
40. Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.
41. Always put yourself in others' shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the other person, too.
42. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.
43. When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling.
44. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.
45. Anger is a condition in which the tongue works faster than the mind.
46. You can't change the past, but you can ruin the present by worrying over the future.
47. Love ......and you shall be loved.
48. All people smile in the same language.
49. A hug is a great gift..one size fits all. It can be given for any occasion and it's easy to exchange.
50. Everyone needs to be loved...especially when they do not deserve it.
51. The real measure of a man's wealth is what he has invested in love.
52. Everything has beauty but not everyone sees it.
53. It's important for parents to live the same things they teach.
54. If you fill your heart with regrets of yesterday and the worries of tomorrow, you have no today to be thankful for.
55. Happy memories never wear out.... relive them as often as you want.
56. Home is the place where we grumble the most, but are often treated the best.
57. The choice you make today will usually affect tomorrow.
58. Take time to laugh for it is the music of the soul.
59. If anyone speaks badly of you, live so none will believe it.
60. Patience is the ability to idle your motor when you feel like stripping your gears.
61. Love is strengthened by working through conflicts together.
62. The best thing parents can do for their children is to love each other.
63. Harsh words break no bones but they do break hearts.
64. To get out of a difficulty, one usually must go through it.
65. We take for granted the things that we should be giving thanks for.
66. Love is the only thing that can be divided without being diminished.
67. Happiness is enhanced by others but does not depend upon others.
68. For every minute you are angry with someone, you lose 60 seconds of happiness that you can never get back.
69. Do what you can, for who you can, with what you have, and where you are.
70. AND DO NOT EVER FORGET .... FOR EVEN A DAY HOW VERY SPECIAL YOU ARE !

10 things bout dream

1. Dreams keep you sane

You are having the same crazy dream over and over again – you must be losing your marbles… Well, scientists wouldn’t agree with you on that. In fact, dreaming is what keeps you sane! According to them, dreams stabilize your psyche and prevent psychosomatic illnesses. So next time you have nightmare, relax – that’s just your brain’s way to let out some steam.

2. Fetuses and blind people dream too

The lack of the visual component doesn’t necessarily mean no dreams. In fact, blind people and fetuses do have quite vivid dreams that involve sounds, smell and even touch. Now, if you ask me– that beats the hell out of my regular dreams!

3. You can’t dream of a person or a place you don’t know

Yup, the people in your dreams are not just completely real but familiar too! Your brain can mix and blend faces, places, events and behaviors but the base of all that is your real life, people you already know and places you have seen or been to before. Now this can be good and a bad thing, depending on how you look at it. The bad news is that the gypsy lady and her magical herbs won’t help you dream about that perfect man you are destined to meet (and marry) later in life. However, if you already had a dream about him, he might be closer than you think because you absolutely know him!

4. Every time you sleep, you dream

I’m taking a risk of repeating myself just to point out the first thing on this list – Dreaming keeps you normal! So every mentally stable person is dreaming and, furthermore, has from 4 to 7 dreams per night. The fact that you don’t remember it doesn’t mean it didn’t happen (it’s kinda like doing crazy stuff when you are drunk… but let’s not go off topic now) Statistics says that people forget 90% of their dreams so if you don’t trust me, trust this exact science.

5. Over-the-counter medicines can enhance your dreams

Some people claim that using over-the-counter aids like nicotine patches, gave their dreams quite a boost. Now, when it comes to various supplements, patches, sleeping aids and stuff, I have to say I’m not much of a fan but I’m seriously considering giving this a go. For purely scientific reasons, off course!

6. Technical evolution does affect dreams

shocking but true – generations who watched black and white TV have black and white or only slightly colored dreams. As opposed to that, new generations of kids are more likely to dream in full color. Does this mean my grand and great grand kids will have High Definition, Super Surround, Bed-Cinema dreams with a “store” and “replay” option? I sincerely hope not!

7. Men usually dream about other men

We would give our brand new pair of shoes just to be able to see their dreams and confirm that they are dreaming about us and not that tall, blonde, big-busted girl next-door. Right? No need for that, thank God,because he is probably dreaming about his boss, plumber or even the blonde’s husband! Various researches have proved that men usually dream other men while women’s dreams involve both men and women in equal proportion. In plain English – only one person in your bed will be dreaming about Angelina Jolie. You!

8. Ex-smokers have more vivid dream

Been there, done that and, honestly, the pain of quitting is nothing compared to the dreams you experience in that period. It was really cool, thought, like sleeping and watching a movie in the same time. So there you go – one more reason to say no to ciggies.

9. Male dreams are more active, aggressive and negative

Give or take a nightmare or two, we girls generally have more positive dreams than guys. Our dreams are peaceful, set indoors and include friends, family and other people we know, while our poor guys have very active dreams that often include strangers and a whole palette of bad feelings.

10. It’s hard to dream when you are drunk

Except having the power to make guys appear hotter than they really are, alcohol can actually make your brain so slow that you can’t even dream. REM sleep, the phase in which you experience your most vivid dreams, get’s skipped when you are under the influence of alcohol. You instantly go into deep sleep phase in which dreams are nothing but colors, different emotions or fragmented images.

So, did you have any interesting dreams lately? And are you one of the lucky ones that remember their dreams? What do you think they mean? Or do you have any other facts about dreams to share

lurve!

From the very beginning, girl's family objected

strongly on her dating this guy, saying that it has

got to do with family background, & that the girl will

have to suffer for the rest of her life if she were to

be with him.

Due to family's pressure, the couple quarreled very

often. Though the girl loved the guy deeply, she

always asked him: "How deep is your love for me?" As

the guy is not good with his words, this often caused

the girl to be very upset. With that & the family's

pressure, the gal often vents her anger on him. As for

him, he only endured it in silence.

After a couple of years, the guy finally graduated &

decided to further his studies overseas. Before

leaving, he proposed to the gal: "I'm not very good

with words. But all I know is that I love you. If you

allow me, I will take care of you for the rest of my

life. As for your family, I'll try my best to talk

them round. Will you marry me?"

The girl agreed, & with the guy's determination, the

family finally gave in & agreed to let them get

married. So before he left, they got engaged. The gal

went out to the working society, whereas the guy was

overseas, continuing his studies. They sent their love

through emails & phone calls. Though it was hard, but

both never thought of giving up.

One day, while the gal was on her way to work, she was

knocked down by a car that lost control. When she woke

up, she saw her parents beside her bed. She realized

that she was badly injured. Seeing her mum crying, she

wanted to comfort her. But she realized that all that

could come out of her mouth was just a sigh. She had

lost her voice....

The doctors say that the impact on her brain has

caused her to lose her voice. Listening to her

parents' comfort, but with nothing coming out from

her, she broke down. During the stay in hospital,

besides silence cry, it's still just silence cry that

accompanied her. Upon reaching home, everything seems

to be the same. Except for the ringing tone of the

phone. Which pierced into her heart every time it

rang? She does not wish to let the guy know. & not

wanting to be a burden to him, she wrote a letter to

him saying that she does not wish to wait any longer.

With that, she sent the ring back to him. In return,

the guy sent

>millions & millions of reply, countless of phone

calls, all the gal could do, besides crying, is still

crying.... The parents decided to move away, hoping

that she could eventually forget everything & be

happy.

With a new environment, the gal learns sign language &

started a new life. Telling herself everyday that she

must forget the guy. One day, her friend came & told

her that he's back. She asked her friend not to let

him know what happened to her. Since then, there

wasn't anymore news of him.

A year has passed & her friend came with an envelope,

containing an invitation card for the guy's wedding.

The gal was shattered. When she opens the letter, she

saw her name in it instead. When she was about to ask

her friend what's going on, she saw the guy standing

in front of her.

He used sign language to tell her "I've spent a year

to learn sign language. Just to let you know that I've

not forgotten our promise. Let me have the chance to

be your voice. I Love You." With that, he slipped the

ring back into her finger. The gal finally smiled.

Treat every relationship as if it's the last one, then

you'll know how to give. Treat every moment as is it's

the last day, and then you'll know how to treasure.

Treasure what you have right now, or else you will

regret one day...

:^