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| use to tell this to myself |
You are having the same crazy dream over and over again – you must be losing your marbles… Well, scientists wouldn’t agree with you on that. In fact, dreaming is what keeps you sane! According to them, dreams stabilize your psyche and prevent psychosomatic illnesses. So next time you have nightmare, relax – that’s just your brain’s way to let out some steam.
The lack of the visual component doesn’t necessarily mean no dreams. In fact, blind people and fetuses do have quite vivid dreams that involve sounds, smell and even touch. Now, if you ask me– that beats the hell out of my regular dreams!
Yup, the people in your dreams are not just completely real but familiar too! Your brain can mix and blend faces, places, events and behaviors but the base of all that is your real life, people you already know and places you have seen or been to before. Now this can be good and a bad thing, depending on how you look at it. The bad news is that the gypsy lady and her magical herbs won’t help you dream about that perfect man you are destined to meet (and marry) later in life. However, if you already had a dream about him, he might be closer than you think because you absolutely know him!
I’m taking a risk of repeating myself just to point out the first thing on this list – Dreaming keeps you normal! So every mentally stable person is dreaming and, furthermore, has from 4 to 7 dreams per night. The fact that you don’t remember it doesn’t mean it didn’t happen (it’s kinda like doing crazy stuff when you are drunk… but let’s not go off topic now) Statistics says that people forget 90% of their dreams so if you don’t trust me, trust this exact science.
Some people claim that using over-the-counter aids like nicotine patches, gave their dreams quite a boost. Now, when it comes to various supplements, patches, sleeping aids and stuff, I have to say I’m not much of a fan but I’m seriously considering giving this a go. For purely scientific reasons, off course!
Been there, done that and, honestly, the pain of quitting is nothing compared to the dreams you experience in that period. It was really cool, thought, like sleeping and watching a movie in the same time. So there you go – one more reason to say no to ciggies.
Give or take a nightmare or two, we girls generally have more positive dreams than guys. Our dreams are peaceful, set indoors and include friends, family and other people we know, while our poor guys have very active dreams that often include strangers and a whole palette of bad feelings.
Except having the power to make guys appear hotter than they really are, alcohol can actually make your brain so slow that you can’t even dream. REM sleep, the phase in which you experience your most vivid dreams, get’s skipped when you are under the influence of alcohol. You instantly go into deep sleep phase in which dreams are nothing but colors, different emotions or fragmented images.
So, did you have any interesting dreams lately? And are you one of the lucky ones that remember their dreams? What do you think they mean? Or do you have any other facts about dreams to share
From the very beginning, girl's family objected
strongly on her dating this guy, saying that it has
got to do with family background, & that the girl will
have to suffer for the rest of her life if she were to
be with him.
Due to family's pressure, the couple quarreled very
often. Though the girl loved the guy deeply, she
always asked him: "How deep is your love for me?" As
the guy is not good with his words, this often caused
the girl to be very upset. With that & the family's
pressure, the gal often vents her anger on him. As for
him, he only endured it in silence.
After a couple of years, the guy finally graduated &
decided to further his studies overseas. Before
leaving, he proposed to the gal: "I'm not very good
with words. But all I know is that I love you. If you
allow me, I will take care of you for the rest of my
life. As for your family, I'll try my best to talk
them round. Will you marry me?"
The girl agreed, & with the guy's determination, the
family finally gave in & agreed to let them get
married. So before he left, they got engaged. The gal
went out to the working society, whereas the guy was
overseas, continuing his studies. They sent their love
through emails & phone calls. Though it was hard, but
both never thought of giving up.
One day, while the gal was on her way to work, she was
knocked down by a car that lost control. When she woke
up, she saw her parents beside her bed. She realized
that she was badly injured. Seeing her mum crying, she
wanted to comfort her. But she realized that all that
could come out of her mouth was just a sigh. She had
lost her voice....
The doctors say that the impact on her brain has
caused her to lose her voice. Listening to her
parents' comfort, but with nothing coming out from
her, she broke down. During the stay in hospital,
besides silence cry, it's still just silence cry that
accompanied her. Upon reaching home, everything seems
to be the same. Except for the ringing tone of the
phone. Which pierced into her heart every time it
rang? She does not wish to let the guy know. & not
wanting to be a burden to him, she wrote a letter to
him saying that she does not wish to wait any longer.
With that, she sent the ring back to him. In return,
the guy sent
>millions & millions of reply, countless of phone
calls, all the gal could do, besides crying, is still
crying.... The parents decided to move away, hoping
that she could eventually forget everything & be
happy.
With a new environment, the gal learns sign language &
started a new life. Telling herself everyday that she
must forget the guy. One day, her friend came & told
her that he's back. She asked her friend not to let
him know what happened to her. Since then, there
wasn't anymore news of him.
A year has passed & her friend came with an envelope,
containing an invitation card for the guy's wedding.
The gal was shattered. When she opens the letter, she
saw her name in it instead. When she was about to ask
her friend what's going on, she saw the guy standing
in front of her.
He used sign language to tell her "I've spent a year
to learn sign language. Just to let you know that I've
not forgotten our promise. Let me have the chance to
be your voice. I Love You." With that, he slipped the
ring back into her finger. The gal finally smiled.
Treat every relationship as if it's the last one, then
you'll know how to give. Treat every moment as is it's
the last day, and then you'll know how to treasure.
Treasure what you have right now, or else you will
regret one day...
:^
11-year-old Chan-yi is looking after his lovely younger sister So-yi, by himself ever since their mother left them to find her own future. Despite their desperate situation of being abandoned by family and neighbors, these kids try their best to carry on life. One day, a little puppy joins this small family as Chan-yi steals it from an old couple’s kennel as a gift his sister’s birthday. Especially clever, this dog, whose name is “Ma-eum”, returns the love received from his new family with great loyalty and it seems as though their happiness would continue forever…only until a sudden accident brings them into collapse.
"Remember not only to say the right thing in the right place, but far more difficult still, to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment. "-
